read
Why Does It Hurt When I Have Sex?
For many women, it comes as no surprise that sex feels “different” after having a vaginal delivery. Often, we expect to feel “loose” after delivering a baby vaginally, because of the stretching that the vagina goes through;
Alexis's Postpartum Depression Story | Motherhood Understood
Depression, in some form, has dipped in and out of my adult life, like an old boyfriend who, every couple of years, sends you an email or a text that ends up derailing your entire day.
Surviving Your Toxic Family Around the Holidays
Many of us can relate to having that one uncle whose lecherous stare is gross enough to make you want to take a shower, immediately
How Not To Lose Yourself When "The Village" Arrives
There is so much anecdotal and scholarly research out there about the value of a reliable support network during the early days of motherhood.
She's Come Undone
I do a pretty fucking good job of holding my shit together — at least on the outside.
Mom Group Quotes of the Week
We tackle a lot of big, hairy topics on NSFMG, and one of the places where we feel the most free to talk about how we really feel,
My Food Addiction Helps Me Survive Motherhood
It’s evening, and I can hear the boys shouting at each other from the other room as I'm doing the dishes, and I try to focus on the lollipop in my mouth.
How Birth Trauma Almost Ruined My Sex Life:
When I went to my six week check up post-baby, they asked me all about her. They checked her and tested her, prodded and poked her, and got worried about her mottled skin.
The NSFMG Guide To Doing It
The other day, I asked Mom Group: “What cuts through the Mom Thoughts so you can feel like being intimate?”
Abortion After Motherhood
I’ve always been pro-choice, but felt pretty adamantly that abortion was a “last resort” — it was that thing you do when you have no money, no partner, no means to raise a child —
Pregnancy and Body Dysmorphia
I was absolutely terrified of becoming pregnant — not because of the enormous responsibility of carrying a life inside of me, nor was it out of the fear of labor and delivery.
This Is What Happened When I Tried To Quit Antidepressants
In a New York Times article published earlier this year, titled: “Many People Taking Antidepressants Discover They Cannot Quit” the authors detail how the withdrawal effects can be so severe,
Sharing the Load
Conversation at Mom Group recently turned to the topic of parental equality in terms of who takes on the bigger portion of household and childcare duties — and, SURPRISE! It’s mostly moms,
Faking Motherhood
When I was pregnant with my first child, I had no idea what his birth would be like; and so, like a good girl, I did my research.
Before We Were Mamas
I put out a challenge to Mom Group over the weekend, to post a photo of ourselves in our “maiden phases” (i.e. before we became mothers), and to write a little blurb about what that time in our lives meant to us.
The Sensual, Overburdened Mother
The two themes we explored this week in Mom Group could be seen as diametric opposites: Sensuality, and, the unequal weight of responsibility that falls on mothers — specifically with regard to the labor of childcare and managing a home.
Sometimes I Hate Being a Stay-At-Home Mom
Before I sat down to write this piece, I had just finished cleaning up my 23-month-old daughter’s behind and her poopy diaper. It was so major of a job, it had to be performed in the tub.
How to Love A Mom Bod
If you haven't noticed, I'm figuring this all out as I go along. Every week, I see and feel NSFMG evolving and growing (in however small increments) in ways that make me feel proud of what I've created, and also in over my head.
What No One Told Me About Packing School Lunch
It’s the beginning of the year, and my husband and I are attending Parent Curriculum Night at our son’s preschool. On this special night, we have the unique opportunity to visit our child’s classroom and compare his shitty artwork…
Baby Sleep Tracking Made Me Lose My Damn Mind
Before there were apps to track your baby’s feeding, nursing, and sleep sessions – there were good, old fashioned notebooks.